Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Cheating on Spouses / Divorce
Valentines Day has been traditionally know and the Celebration of Love! You may be shocked to learn that more spouses ask for divorce just prior to Valentine's Day and Christmas. It is believed by many that people choose these particular times in order to keep from buying their spouse a gift. How sad!
Marriage is supposed to be a LIFETIME commitment. If people would take Divorce out their options, they would try harder to make a happier marriage. If people viewed their spouse as a part of themselves (since that is how married people are suppose to view each other), maybe we would spend more efforts to make them feel loved, cared for, safe, complete, etc. Every bit of time and effort that we spend showing our spouse how much we care will eventually be returned to you!
Cheating spouses are often caught on these holidays also. The cheating spouse is pressured to spend time & money on both (the wife & the girlfriend) or (the husband & the boyfriend). It's always a pressure cooker for them to fit spending quality time with each and account for the time not spent with them. Then there's the money. How does one hide the money trail? Here's one tip. Look at your credit card card bill for purchases that you did not make. When you get your gift, if it doesn't seem to match the amount of the total sale for the day, (such as; your spouse gives you a $50 bottle of perfume but there is a $175 total). Your spouse probably spent the other $125 of the sale on the boyfriend/girlfriend. Keep you eyes on the cash taken at the ATM machine or received when depositing their checks.
Flee the temptation! It is NOT worth it! Spend your efforts and money on your own mate! Can you imagine your 50th Anniversary? Try to!
Marriage is supposed to be a LIFETIME commitment. If people would take Divorce out their options, they would try harder to make a happier marriage. If people viewed their spouse as a part of themselves (since that is how married people are suppose to view each other), maybe we would spend more efforts to make them feel loved, cared for, safe, complete, etc. Every bit of time and effort that we spend showing our spouse how much we care will eventually be returned to you!
Cheating spouses are often caught on these holidays also. The cheating spouse is pressured to spend time & money on both (the wife & the girlfriend) or (the husband & the boyfriend). It's always a pressure cooker for them to fit spending quality time with each and account for the time not spent with them. Then there's the money. How does one hide the money trail? Here's one tip. Look at your credit card card bill for purchases that you did not make. When you get your gift, if it doesn't seem to match the amount of the total sale for the day, (such as; your spouse gives you a $50 bottle of perfume but there is a $175 total). Your spouse probably spent the other $125 of the sale on the boyfriend/girlfriend. Keep you eyes on the cash taken at the ATM machine or received when depositing their checks.
Flee the temptation! It is NOT worth it! Spend your efforts and money on your own mate! Can you imagine your 50th Anniversary? Try to!
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
I have been to Sr. Citizens Retirement Homes and Nursing Homes on many occasions and I seem to always find one who tells me that they are just sitting and waiting to die. They say that they feel that there is nothing to live for and they have nothing more to give or feel useful. The book "Unburied Treasure" is the perfect gift for them to fulfill their need to feel useful and a sense of purpose. I feel that their thoughts and experiences are our GREATEST TREASURE but ONLY if we tap into it. We can sit and talk to them to grab some of their thoughts, ideas, experiences, etc. but it should be recorded so that it can be shared for future generations. Have you ever wondered why you are who you are? It all has to do with your upbringing but that has to do with your parents' upbringing and yet that has to do with their parents' upbringing and so on.... This book enables you, your children, great-grandchildren and so on, to know why they are who they are!!!! They only need to jot down responses to several topics. They can even come up with topics on their own. The response can be a few sentences, a paragraph or they can go further. So simple and yet so meaningful! "Unburied Treasure" can be found on my website www.CatherineTorrez.com. "Unburied Treasure" Check it out!
Monday, February 6, 2012
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