Valentines Day has been traditionally know and the Celebration of Love! You may be shocked to learn that more spouses ask for divorce just prior to Valentine's Day and Christmas. It is believed by many that people choose these particular times in order to keep from buying their spouse a gift. How sad!
Marriage is supposed to be a LIFETIME commitment. If people would take Divorce out their options, they would try harder to make a happier marriage. If people viewed their spouse as a part of themselves (since that is how married people are suppose to view each other), maybe we would spend more efforts to make them feel loved, cared for, safe, complete, etc. Every bit of time and effort that we spend showing our spouse how much we care will eventually be returned to you!
Cheating spouses are often caught on these holidays also. The cheating spouse is pressured to spend time & money on both (the wife & the girlfriend) or (the husband & the boyfriend). It's always a pressure cooker for them to fit spending quality time with each and account for the time not spent with them. Then there's the money. How does one hide the money trail? Here's one tip. Look at your credit card card bill for purchases that you did not make. When you get your gift, if it doesn't seem to match the amount of the total sale for the day, (such as; your spouse gives you a $50 bottle of perfume but there is a $175 total). Your spouse probably spent the other $125 of the sale on the boyfriend/girlfriend. Keep you eyes on the cash taken at the ATM machine or received when depositing their checks.
Flee the temptation! It is NOT worth it! Spend your efforts and money on your own mate! Can you imagine your 50th Anniversary? Try to!
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