Disappointments

Life is full of disappointments!  The greatest disappointment for me is when you realize that YOU have offended someone without even knowing it and causing them to go to sleep in tears over your mistaken communications.  When a person unintentionally causes someone pain and the person doesn't give you a clue that you have hurt their feelings, then you are horrified that you have just gone on without asking forgiveness and have the ability to repent and CHANGE the way you are communicating, therefore, you continue to make the same mistakes and cause deeper pain to that person.  This causes the offender to realize that they lack in sensitivity!

How to change?  Let me hear your thoughts on the subject.